to let go isn't to forget, not think about or ignore. it doesn't have any feelings of anger, jealousy or regret. letting go isn't wining or losing. its not about pride. its not about obssesion or dwelling in the past. it isn't about loss && it isn't defeat. to let go is to cherish the memories, to overcome them & move on. letting go is accepting. letting go is having the courage to accept change. letting go is growing up.